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Welcome — you found me

The woman you dream to be
is exactly who you already are.

If you are here from a podcast, an article, or a friend who thought of you — I'm glad you came.

The most helpful place to begin is with a short practice. Fifteen minutes, guided, designed to bring you back to yourself. Below is how to get it, and a few doors to what comes next when you're ready.

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Rita Palumbo

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The Return.

"She didn't disappear. She's been here the whole time, underneath the competence, the capability, every role you've been performing so well. She's been waiting."

A guided practice that meets you where you actually are. Breathwork, a somatic body scan, and a return to who you were before you learned which parts of yourself were acceptable.

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Hello, I'm Rita.

I am an aerospace engineer at the European Space Agency, a somatic self-leadership coach, and the founder of The Self-Led Woman. Every morning, before I open a single email, I sit in meditation for twenty minutes. That is not a contradiction — it is the whole point.

My work is helping high-achieving professional women stop performing confidence and start inhabiting it, through the nervous system, not through more strategy.

PhD Aerospace Engineering·European Space Agency·Yoga & Embodiment Teacher·Meditation Practitioner

When you're ready, three doors.

Take them in whatever order feels right.

The programme

The Self-Led Woman

A six-week group coaching programme for professional women ready to lead from internal authority rather than performance. Somatic science meets self-leadership.

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Free guide

Prepared, Not Lucky

Pregnancy preparation for the birth you want. Self-leadership carried into the most important threshold of your life, so you walk in as the decision-maker.

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The book

Prepared, Not Lucky

The complete book of pregnancy, birth and the fourth trimester. Everything I did to prepare for the birth I wanted, and everything I learned when it came.

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